How to date a man online?

Many men make the mistake of writing to a woman based on her photo and geographic proximity. But selecting the most beautiful lady close to you isn't the best formula for getting you dates.

What to write in your first message? You are almost guaranteed to fail if you write to a woman on a dating site telling her that she is very pretty...
You seem generic and boring. Most reasonably attractive women with online dating profiles receive dozens of those kind of responses per some cases, dozens per day. Your compliment won't stand out from all the other responses in her inbox. She will be bored because you haven't said anything to convince her the two of you belong together.

However, if you choose to write to women who share your interests, you gain many opportunities for intriguing opening lines. Set your search parameters to find a woman who enjoys the same authors, TV shows, movies or hobbies as you. Then write her with an intelligent observation.something along the lines of .I love author X.s books, too. Which one is your favorite?. Or if both of your profiles reveal a love of hiking, share a short anecdote about your favorite trail, then ask about her recent experiences in the great outdoors.

Sometimes it's necessary to do a bit of tweaking your profile to make this work. If a gorgeous woman in your area writes in her profile that she loves science fiction, go back and amend your profile to include our favorite sci-fi books or movies. I definitely don.t advocate dishonesty here.if you hate sci-fi and her profile doesn.t reveal any other common ground with you, simply move on. better off approaching another woman who does share your enthusiasm for surfing or Italian food or country music. Remember, there.s no such thing as an abstract .perfect woman.. But there is a woman who may be perfect for you (either long-term or short-term). The secret to finding that perfection is by emphasizing similar beliefs and interests.